What SIM players have to know when join the SIM games (Ground & air)

If you know how IFF works in plane and AAA then you will shoot safely most of the times but in Air the most dangerus situation is you are chaseing a foe who is chaseing a friendly and you want to release a side winder or some IR missile that with foe manuver you will kill friendly by that. So it is better have com with friendly and ask for jin cut before fire the missile.