Games are so weird for me

I feel like the game puts me in matches that are impossible to win. Enemies are just omni-sense and target, my teammates are just weird people that will J out or do almost nothing at the entire game. I can’t even get kills since I get sniped 3km away from a guy hiding between an entire forest. I think Zenturion made a ‘War Thunder Burnout’ video (?), I might be wrong though. Anyone got any tip?