90 ping but my shots are going wild?

Alright I have playing for a while and I am located in the NA. But for some reason I have never been under 90 ping and after this update it feels so much worse. My buddy who is less then a mile from me gets 30 ping. No matter what I do its always around 90, After the seek and destroy update though I can barely play the game my shots are going no where near where I place them. I can’t get any kills because APFSDS is doing next to nothing I am not getting hit cams and if I do its the petals of the round hitting the track. I don’t get what’s going on. I don’t have this problem on any other games.